December 20, 2009
How To Free Yourself from the Fear of Betrayal
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Advisor , writes… …
“I am afraid of being hurt again, but I truly wish to be with my soul mate. How can I feel more confident about love”?
You have two ways to pursue here. 1) You can stall until you’ve had adequate time in between the pain in your past relationship or 2) begin moving on and releasing the past. Since you want to reach your soul mate, then I would do the work in releasing. It is faster and easier than you’d imagine. Acquiring help from a certified relationship life coach can make your path smoother.
Receiving guidance to do release work is a path of releasing and freeing yourself from your past. Think of emotional release and letting go as forgiveness. You are creating new space for the fresh, new, healthy, and whole relationship to reside in.
I realize some of you are saying “Yeah but, I don’t think he really should be forgiven for his actions. He was wrong and that is just that”! The will it takes to hold a grudge takes up your space. You’re allowing your happiness to be drained away from you. It is a slow leak in your energy field and over time, it will deplete you, if it has not already. Also, that slow energy trickle prevents you from letting all of your power focused in this present moment. When you do not have your consciousness in the moment, do you imagine you are going to be the perfect creator that you truly are? It becomes that much more impairing. Take your full potential back by releasing and letting go of your past relationship, of judgements that burden you, muss up your energy level and prevent you from going forward to creating the life you were born to live. You can increase the speed of this process immensely by receiving help from a life coach.
I find that the topic of forgiveness can be a loaded one. First off, I’m not speaking about the type of forgiveness where we’re excusing someone else’s bad behavior. It is essential to have clear boundaries set for you. And to understand how you feel concerning who you desire in your life and who you don’t, how you desire to spend your time and with whom. It is important to realize what works for you and what does not. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!
Until you clear the space of hurt, you’ll either attract more pain or have a hard time being completely fulfilled with love. So first, clear out the old hurt, then release and let in new love.
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