January 8, 2010
Learning to Feel Safe and Seek Lasting Love
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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Advisor , writes… …
Many people carry over emotional problems from previous relationships, or even childhood events and traumas. The strong feelings from these past experiences can be a real factor in our capability to attract and keep a lasting loving relationship. That was certainly real in my case, and I was not capable of freeing myself from previous emotional rackets until I got help from a Life Coach. The beginning step is to cover exactly what story you have in place that is preventing you from truly living and then expunge it from your mind.
Try writing in a journal and find answers to these questions:
What happened in my relationship and what did I make that mean about me?
What is the dominant feeling that occurs concerning this event?
What is the most recent time I can recall when a similar incident occurred, or felt similar emotions?
Notice how this experience or judgement you discovered concerning the earliest case is a way of being that causes you to react to any situation that is similar.
When the issue is trust, it’s often from an earlier experience and there’s a firmly sustained belief concerning your safety in a relationship or in general. The most likely case is that this recent relationship was not the first occurrence you’ve experienced trust problems. What you think and feel and what shows up in your life experience is always a vibrational match. Learning how to self coach with law of attraction transitional tools and techniques helps you understand what beliefs you hold that operate as a fixed emotion. There is no room for growth or expansion when you contain an emotion that is solidified in your mind. You can break free from emotional barriers inhibiting a love relationship by getting help from a Life Coach for Relationships.
Beliefs are just thoughts that you, your culture, and all people around you, continue repeating. Thoughts, pondered upon long enough turn into thought form. Thought forms change into your reality when you, or others in your life, continue conjuring it up. You see it “out there” as evidence to support your thoughts or beliefs. After a while these thought forms become part of your life experience.
When it comes down to it it is what you decide to do with the belief and the judgement that goes along with it, and the interpretation of what you think is good or bad concerning what you’re seeing or thinking. The interpretation turns the thought into an emotion that feels good or feels bad. This feeling is what transfers to the Universe that then attracts the essence of it and the emotional level is mirrored back in your life experience.
When you have freed up more positive energy, start to create a positive mindset for what’s capable in a relationship. Let your imagination assist you. Use time imagining yourself with a perfect love. You enjoy taking walks together. You’re holding hands and he laughs at your silly jokes. Your brain is a powerful tool and your thoughts combined with heartfelt emotion change your thoughts into magnets. If you’re suffering from a difficult divorce, find a Life Coach for Relationships after Divorce. If you will take these practices to heart you’ll realize you’ll not just trust again, but attract the most loving, trustworthy people into your life in all aspects.
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