May 13, 2010
Relationship Attraction: Looks Are Not Everything
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Advisor , writes… …
Here are the results from a study taken by a well-known dating service.
What are the most important features of a partner:
1. Looks 11%
2. Personality 30%
3. Physique 5%
4. Sense of Humor 14%
5. Eyes 10%
6. Popularity 0%
7. Smile 12%
8. Hair 7%
9. Education 7%
10. Career 3%
So you see, personality is at the top, overwhelmingly!
What does this say about a person? What does it mean for the dater and the datee? It means that personality, no matter what side of the fence you’re on, is a wanted character trait from any person’s point of view.
Now, ‘Appearance’ is in many cases viewed as a visual representation of a person. But as I have explained, ‘Personality’ was ranked at the top. Personality, self-confidence, an engaging attitude, warmth, and being authentic are the characteristics that win out over physical appearance. So many of us are hung up on physical appearance, we get stopped before we get started. If you need the help of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means go get it! Using an independent listener to check in with can help you move away from outdated patterns much more quickly.
What are aspects of personality? Being confident. Self-confidence to be exact. The ability of relaxing, enjoying, and communicating in relaxed and intense subjects. Using the Law of Attraction is amazingly helpful for Relationships Attraction, and is not hard to understand.
What are basic characteristics of being confident in yourself?
1. Knowing what you want.
2. Being assured of yourself. Being sure that what you desire is within your reach.
3. Self-esteem. Knowing you’re worthy of what you desire.
4. Poise. In most situations you keep non-plussed.
What I am getting at is the non-physical aspects of ‘Personality’. An engaging personality has nothing to do with physical appearance. You can create your own Law of Attraction Relationships today and sky-rocket your level of positive potential!
A lot of people I have met, whether they are going back into the dating game, or just considering it get stopped with forces of the scene. “I’m no longer a spring chicken.” “I cannot compete with the hotties.” “The singles scene seems so superficial.”
This type of mental monologue will never get you back out into circulation. Being confident, having an engaging mindset, always keeping a ready, genuine smile and being kind, are the best traits to hold to. Remember that you do not have to do the singles thing. You can find Mr. or Ms. Right in a department store, at church, on a walk, anywhere. Don’t hold yourself by what others say.
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