January 8, 2010
Learning to Feel Safe and Seek Lasting Love
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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Advisor , writes… …
Many people carry over emotional problems from previous relationships, or even childhood events and traumas. The strong feelings from these past experiences can be a real factor in our capability to attract and keep a lasting loving relationship. That was certainly real in my case, and I was not capable of freeing myself from previous emotional rackets until I got help from a Life Coach. The beginning step is to cover exactly what story you have in place that is preventing you from truly living and then expunge it from your mind.
Try writing in a journal and find answers to these questions:
What happened in my relationship and what did I make that mean about me?
What is the dominant feeling that occurs concerning this event?
What is the most recent time I can recall when a similar incident occurred, or felt similar emotions?
Notice how this experience or judgement you discovered concerning the earliest case is a way of being that causes you to react to any situation that is similar.
When the issue is trust, it’s often from an earlier experience and there’s a firmly sustained belief concerning your safety in a relationship or in general. The most likely case is that this recent relationship was not the first occurrence you’ve experienced trust problems. What you think and feel and what shows up in your life experience is always a vibrational match. Learning how to self coach with law of attraction transitional tools and techniques helps you understand what beliefs you hold that operate as a fixed emotion. There is no room for growth or expansion when you contain an emotion that is solidified in your mind. You can break free from emotional barriers inhibiting a love relationship by getting help from a Life Coach for Relationships.
Beliefs are just thoughts that you, your culture, and all people around you, continue repeating. Thoughts, pondered upon long enough turn into thought form. Thought forms change into your reality when you, or others in your life, continue conjuring it up. You see it “out there” as evidence to support your thoughts or beliefs. After a while these thought forms become part of your life experience.
When it comes down to it it is what you decide to do with the belief and the judgement that goes along with it, and the interpretation of what you think is good or bad concerning what you’re seeing or thinking. The interpretation turns the thought into an emotion that feels good or feels bad. This feeling is what transfers to the Universe that then attracts the essence of it and the emotional level is mirrored back in your life experience.
When you have freed up more positive energy, start to create a positive mindset for what’s capable in a relationship. Let your imagination assist you. Use time imagining yourself with a perfect love. You enjoy taking walks together. You’re holding hands and he laughs at your silly jokes. Your brain is a powerful tool and your thoughts combined with heartfelt emotion change your thoughts into magnets. If you’re suffering from a difficult divorce, find a Life Coach for Relationships after Divorce. If you will take these practices to heart you’ll realize you’ll not just trust again, but attract the most loving, trustworthy people into your life in all aspects.
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Free Relationship Video Reveals #1 Secret
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Specialist , writes… …
You’ve ceased a non-functioning relationship that does not fit you anymore. It was difficult to cease it, because it wasn’t terrible, but your heart wished to be completely fulfilled in love. Currently you see yourself being lonesome and have a stressfl time shutting the door completely on that previous relationship. Does this sound like yourself?
You begin to question yourself, wondering if your relationship was really that bad.
In order to invite anything new into our lives, we have to let go of what’s taking its place. It’sdifficult to have a clean start and create the one who completes your existence if you are emotionally keeping the area of the past. You do not need to necessarily completely abandon the friendship. But if you find that you’re holding on to some inhibiting emotions from the previous relationship, then it is time to let that energy out. Completion is necessary. You can get the Relationship Advice you need today.
Completion is a practice of acquiring full responsibility for your emotional level, expressing all that you feel concerning the situation (without laying blame on anyone) with the intention of voicing everything that must be said as though you are emptying a container. When you have expressed it all, that container is empty and cleared out.
It also helps to know what you desire from the expunging conversation. In other words, you want to be complete, you want to be free from your previous life so you can attract from a new place.
If you have found your mind holding on to hurt from the previous relationship, maybe you think that he really should be held accountable for his behavior. Best of luck attempting to break free from that. The more your mind is on something you don’t want, the more you’ll attract it to you.
Let the energy you’re letting in to be siphoned off from your power. It is a slow leak in your energy level and after a while, it will deplete you, if it hasn’t already. Also, that eventual energy leak prevents you from letting all your power present in this moment. When you don’t have your power in the moment it makes it more difficult to be a powerful, deliberate creator. Life Coaching and Relationship Advice can help you along the way.
Take all of your presence back by releasing and letting go of your past, of judgements that bog you down, clutter up your energy level and block you from accelerating the life and love you want and should have.
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December 23, 2009
Relationship Advice for Single Working Moms
Nanette Geiger, Relationship Specialist , writes… …
Susan from North Carolina contacted me because she’s afraid that she’ll never attract a new husband because she is convinced no one wants to settle into a ready-made family. If this sounds like you or a person you know, you could be convinced of that, but it’s just not so. I know several friends who have little ones, teenagers, and everything in between and they’ve still acquired a man who adores them as well as their children. He’s out there. If you contain the desire, you have the ability to create this wonderful relationship into your life.
In my Magnetic Attraction program I speak concerning the importance of making your list. This is a list of attributes that you desire in your ideal lover. In case you are feeling insecure concerning attracting a mate who will completely love and accept your children, this this is a perfect item you should place on your list. “I desire a man who loves me and adores my children and they love him too”. Let us say that is the affirmation or desire. Now it is your job to align with your want.
As a Law of Attraction Life Coach and relationship expert, you learn to clarify your affirmation by putting the low expectation, belief or contradictory emotions out of your energy.
Beliefs that “nobody wants a ready made family” is an outdated program that was taught from the age you are the most receptive, adhering to mass consciousness and does not need to be part of your affirmation. It is not even real.
It is essential to understand that you have a subconscious functioning in the back of your mind. Your subconscious doesn’t permit you to have your wants fulfilled because of the previous doctrines that were taught as you were a child.
It is just like a computer. If you have an outdated version of a word processor on your computer and your friend emails you a document in the latest format, you can’t open it on your old program because the versions just do not match. You can fix this problem with free Love Advice for Women.
Understanding your want completely and consciously and moving into the place of knowing you can have it, that you deserve it, and feeling as if it is already on its way. Get the Love Advice for Single Working Moms you deserve today. This mindset puts you in the category of being deliberate and intentional about your thoughts and desires. Now you are in the creating mode.
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December 20, 2009
How To Free Yourself from the Fear of Betrayal
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Advisor , writes… …
“I am afraid of being hurt again, but I truly wish to be with my soul mate. How can I feel more confident about love”?
You have two ways to pursue here. 1) You can stall until you’ve had adequate time in between the pain in your past relationship or 2) begin moving on and releasing the past. Since you want to reach your soul mate, then I would do the work in releasing. It is faster and easier than you’d imagine. Acquiring help from a certified relationship life coach can make your path smoother.
Receiving guidance to do release work is a path of releasing and freeing yourself from your past. Think of emotional release and letting go as forgiveness. You are creating new space for the fresh, new, healthy, and whole relationship to reside in.
I realize some of you are saying “Yeah but, I don’t think he really should be forgiven for his actions. He was wrong and that is just that”! The will it takes to hold a grudge takes up your space. You’re allowing your happiness to be drained away from you. It is a slow leak in your energy field and over time, it will deplete you, if it has not already. Also, that slow energy trickle prevents you from letting all of your power focused in this present moment. When you do not have your consciousness in the moment, do you imagine you are going to be the perfect creator that you truly are? It becomes that much more impairing. Take your full potential back by releasing and letting go of your past relationship, of judgements that burden you, muss up your energy level and prevent you from going forward to creating the life you were born to live. You can increase the speed of this process immensely by receiving help from a life coach.
I find that the topic of forgiveness can be a loaded one. First off, I’m not speaking about the type of forgiveness where we’re excusing someone else’s bad behavior. It is essential to have clear boundaries set for you. And to understand how you feel concerning who you desire in your life and who you don’t, how you desire to spend your time and with whom. It is important to realize what works for you and what does not. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!
Until you clear the space of hurt, you’ll either attract more pain or have a hard time being completely fulfilled with love. So first, clear out the old hurt, then release and let in new love.
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